Woooh there calm down luv! Sexy that’s a bit out there isn’t it? YES! YES it is and it’s about time we get it and own it ladies. I’ve been so aware of the fact that by wearing certain things I might come across as being too sexy too blah blah blah but I feel there is a certain level of power that you feel when you put on some heels, slip on that dress that hugs you in all the right places and set out. YES! I love it and you should too.
I often see other females strutting their stuff down oxford street and think to myself, one day! Soon hopefully that will be me in heels on strutting my stuff but alas heels and me don’t get on most days, love them don’t get me wrong just in small doses. As I’ve strived to achieve this level of “feeling myself-ness” ( as Beyonce would put it) I’ve come to realise that there is more that one way to feel sexy.
You can feel sexy by just wearing a pair of jeans which show off all your curves with a baggy top and some trainers you don’t have to go to the opposite end of the spectrum wearing a fitted dress, heels, makeup to achieve the stereotypical image of what sexy looks like. Everyone is unique and what might work for you what might not for someone else. Try out different styles and see what works and looks good on you. One thing to note is that you probably won’t be completely comfortable at first but in time the more you embrace this side of yourself the more it will come naturally to you.
If you need help in the style or make-up department Youtube is always a place to start there are lots of cookbooks from various Youtubers of all shape, sizes and ethnicities who you can get inspiration from also Tumblr and Instagram are good places to look.
I hope this post encourages you to give your sexy self some time to shine remember you don’t have to push your boobs up to the sky or show everything you have to offer, experiment with fashion give yourself the gift of spending time on you and see where it goes. No fear.
Sexy isn’t just about what you’re wearing it’s a feeling. Believe you are the bees knees and be the bees knees. That’s all. (Drops mic)
Sidenote: You don’t need a man to feel or be sexy. Just do it. Be your own bae! (Too much?…NAHHH!)
“You can be the lead in your own life.”